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can men answer y girls have to be the ones to make first move these days #womeninmalefield and i’m not having it

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Anonymous 9w

No one should have to make the first move based solely on gender

Anonymous 9w

There was a pretty large social media movement a few years ago where women were posting videos of men online calling them creepy and telling men to stop approaching them. Right around the same time there was a wave of feminist men that were posting on social media about holding other men accountable. The combination of those two, along with Covid wrapping up right before, created a fear of being seen as creepy and an acceptance of solitude that has killed any drive for men to approach women.

Anonymous 9w

Bc women are scary

Anonymous 9w

No one gender has to make the first move. Usually men are expected to, but woman are also equally capable of doing it. If you’re interested in someone, you shouldn’t think about your gender in regards to making a move, because no one gender is supposed to make the first move. This has been my ted talk

Anonymous 9w

sometimes men have hard time reading the mood

Anonymous 8w

Im gay but whenever i talk to women i worry im making them uncomfortable because they might think im hitting on them, lots of guys dont want to make women uncomfortable with unwanted advances

Anonymous 9w

I made the first move and turned out I was being a creep

Anonymous 9w

Why should men have to be the first to make move?

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#7 9w

The rise of online dating and internet porn hasn’t really helped either.

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Anonymous 9w

you just got ratioed

Anonymous

#7 9w

Someone did their research

Anonymous

#6 9w

I lived through it lol, I watched all of it happen in real time, and I remember thinking at the time that this was going to be the results

Anonymous

#7 9w

Very well worded, my thoughts exactly. In the other hand though, women don’t think men are creepy for no reason and it’s on us to deconstruct the system that allowed men to do such horrible things to women

Anonymous

#6 9w

Yeah probably by a whole load of pussy ass men 🥱

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Anonymous

#4 9w

I agree. It’s the fault of men that it’s gotten to this point, and it’s the fault of men that the first reaction of women when a man approaches them is “that’s a creeper,” but men withdrawing to this point is the fault of women for not verifying that the men approaching them are/are not creeps. There have been a lot of instances where it’s come out after the initial social media post that the man in question wasn’t doing anything wrong, but by that point the man has already been labeled a creep.

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Anonymous 9w

LMFAOOOO 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous

#4 9w

It’s gotten better in the last year or so, and people are starting to interact with each other again, but it’s going to be a long time and a lot of work before men and women feel comfortable around each other again. We all need to think critically about social interactions and ignore initial knee-jerk reactions, or eventually there will be no social interactions at all, and that’s good for nobody.

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Anonymous 9w

How many you got?? 💀

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Anonymous 9w

Ofc its a very man take thats what yall asked for you wanted the perspective and you got it stop bitching about it

Anonymous

#5 9w

boohoo men are scarier like hello 97% of homicides are committed by men y’all dont even have a reason to be scared besides fearing rejection ur just pussies

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Anonymous 9w

This is quite literally the most true thing a man can say bozo get ratiod

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Anonymous 9w

As a guy