Anonymous #3 16h

I did communicate, he wasn’t listening

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Anonymous OP 16h

You told him what you wanted and then he started doing the opposite? That's weird. Did you tell him after that you didn't enjoy it?

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Anonymous #3 16h

Yes. He told me what I wanted would’ve taken too long

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Anonymous OP 16h

And you had sex with him after that? That's wild. If someone told me that fulfilling me sexually was boring, I wouldn't talk to them anymore.

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Anonymous #3 16h

It was in the middle of it that I was trying to tell him not before

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Anonymous #3 16h

And I don’t plan to have sex with him again

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Anonymous OP 16h

Dude got what he wanted with his pump and dump. Next time you might want to talk to the person first to see if you're compatible before having sex so this doesn't happen again

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Anonymous #3 2h

People are also capable of lying to get what they want. Maybe put more blame on the dude who was only interested in his own wants than someone who probably entered into the process thinking it would be of mutual benefit.

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Anonymous #4 2h

Tbh, the bare minimum in hook ups is each person getting off. If someone isn't interested in the other person’s pleasure, they should stick to masturbating.

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Anonymous #3 1h

ur acting like ppl are always honest and never behave differently than how they actually would in order to get laid🙄 seriously why are u blaming op instead of the dude who didn’t want to try to make her feel good

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