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Why do men think that coming over and groping a girl is foreplay. I start to resent when he comes to "cuddle" because I know within 10 minutes l'll be expected to have sex. I love cuddling and it's ruined
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Anonymous 4w

Cuddling is dope as hell I wish people weren’t so weird about it like we could be chillling under the covers and snogging but you’re to busy trying to get laid 💔

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Anonymous 4w

I don’t understand why girls find it so difficult to set boundaries and then leave if those boundaries are broken. If I say I don’t want my ass eaten and my girl eats my ass, I’m obviously leaving. It would sound so stupid if I stayed and then complained that she ate my ass again and again.

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Anonymous 4w

Communication is key and if they don’t listen move on

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Anonymous 4w

People do what now? I’ve only ever dated one person (we’re still together) and cuddles are cuddles, cuddling means snuggling under the covers and watching movies.

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Anonymous 4w

That’s why having a long term relationship is so great! You get past the smut and then you get cuddles every night!

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Anonymous 4w

Groping is absolutely a type of foreplay, and lots of girls love it too.

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Anonymous 4w

Just ditch him and find another man that’ll respect you. I don’t get why when girls don’t like something a guys doing they keep seeing the dude.

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Anonymous 3d

ik exactly what you mean girl and it really hurts :( if you haven’t already told him this isn’t what you want, PLEASE do. tell him you need him to communicate he wants sex in a way that doesn’t invade the safety of your relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

We’ve been together a long time. I know I should but I also get wanting to have sex. It’s just complicated and I don’t want to throw it away over this

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Who hurt you (ate your ass) 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I’m traumatized don’t blame me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Do you have a conversation or look for someone that you dont need to have this conversation with Cuddling is pretty dope ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Talk to him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I get that. I guess I don’t have the full picture and if he treats u well outside of this situation that’s fine. But if there are other issues and even after talking to him about it it looks like he still just wants u for his pleasure might not be a good idea call it and look for someone more compatible/respectful long term.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

Exactlyyyyy. I want cuddles not constant sex when I don’t want it😭

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