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Update: so the date got rescheduled to sometime this week and he STILL keeps bringing up the idea of us cuddling even though I’ve expressed multiple times now that I don’t want to and it’s kinda becoming cringy because he said “it’s cuddle season”😬
So I’m supposed to be goin on a 1st date with a guy in 2 weeks and he asked if I’d be down to kiss and cuddle. Knowing how most men are, I’m worried he’s probably gonna try to make it lead to sex, and I’m NOT down with that, especially on a FIRST date💀😭
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Anonymous 1d

Yeah… if he keeps this up before we finally meet I’m just gonna call off the date and either ask we just be friends or stop talking to him altogether 💀😭

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Anonymous 22h

It seems like he is trying to coerce/convince you. He is not respecting your boundaries. If I was you I would drop him because this will be a bigger problem

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Anonymous 1d

Some dudes just like cuddling

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I already said no to it though 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Fairs

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

Yeah. I even had to change our plans from dinner and a movie to just dinner (all in public or course) because he literally told me that he “wouldn’t be able to NOT cuddle me during a movie”. I immediately cringed after that😬😭💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

You can do what you want and that’s a good plan but I feel like he isn’t worth it because he doesn’t know that no means no. He prefers his own personal gain over your choice

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