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need advice i own a vibrator from a past relationship. i am now with a new girl, and it’s a very healthy relationship. would it be weird to use the same vibrator with her ? is it a red flag to own one?
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Anonymous 5d

Replace it.

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Anonymous 6d

It’s definitely not a red flag to own one but that is a bit weird to use the same vibrator with her. I wouldn’t want anybody doing that with me

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Anonymous 5d

Get a new one!

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Anonymous 5d

All I'm saying is these things tend to get thrown back in your face during disagreements about unrelated matters.

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Anonymous 6d

As a girl I wouldnt think so but idk

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Anonymous 5d

just clean it really well

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Anonymous 5d

See I’m not sentimental in that way so I’d do it. I think it comes down to you though

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Anonymous 3d

Not a red flag to own one but to use it with her is HORRIBLE

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5d

Plus I feel bad anything I buy anything new that wasn’t necessary

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5d

I don’t see it as weird in a sentimental way. It’s the fact that it touched someone else that’s the weird part

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3d

Yeah but you can clean things

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