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Guys, he asked me to make it official today, I said yes, I was gandering through his phone and saw he messaged 3 girls that he “couldn’t see them anymore”, and to “not contact him anymore”. And I really do not know if that’s a green flag, or a red one…
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Anonymous 30w

You gandering through is phone is a very big red flag 😬

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Anonymous 30w

help.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 30w

*his

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 30w

it’s not like i was actively looking for anything, my phone was dead and i was bored. If someone touching your phone is a red flag, i fear you’re the red flag.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 30w

Why were you looking through his messages?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 30w

i wasn’t, I was on instagram and i was sending a post to myself.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 30w

How exactly did that lead to looking at not just one of his message chains but three?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 30w

…When I was getting out of my text thread…His messages were there…I fear that’s not hard to understand.

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Anonymous 30w

Yeah, it just threw me off when I saw it because he was the only guy i was talking to at the time. But I understand we weren't "official" and exclusive up until now, and I hadn’t mentioned anything about it, l've talked to him about it, everything is good between us :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 30w

Sending posts on instagram doesn’t require you to open messages

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