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I just got out of an abusive relationship and idk how to put myself out there as I lost all sexual confidence anyone have any tips?
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Anonymous 4d

Take 6 months minimum to yourself before you decide to put yourself back in any dating pool

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Anonymous 4d

Please wait a little bit, ive been there before and your top priority should be processing what happened and taking care of yourself. If you rush into anything it might not go very well

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Anonymous 3d

Listen, there is no reason for you to put yourself out there right now. It’s your time to heal and build yourself up emotionally and physically in the ways that will make YOU happy. I recommend the combo of therapy and an active hobby. Talking to a good therapist and backing that up with going on walks or hikes or going to the gym will reinvent you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

And if anyone tries to force you into a relationship before youre ready, please get away from them!!! Some people will hear about what happened and think they can take advantage.

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