Anonymous #2 1w

this is such a closed minded take. if u want to loose weight for yourself, more power to u but “having a better dating life” is truly nonsense. there is someone out there for quite literally everyone and just bc u have some rolls does NOT diminish ur chances of finding love like be confident in urself.

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Anonymous #3 1w

I mean if you want to believe that, sure. I personally don’t think plus size women are unlovable at all, but I do think men are shallow as hell and most won’t give you the chance to develop a relationship (especially not a public one) if you are fat. That’s just the reality. If you become more attractive your options open up more.

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Anonymous #2 1w

it truly isn’t a reality at all and more of a online experience like this is SUCH a nonissue. so many men love chubby/fat women like there’s no universal type and the world isn’t out to get u, get off tiktok.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Bro when did I say the world was out to get me 😭 and I’m talking about real life experiences here.

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Anonymous #2 6d

I've never met a guy who doesn't love fat women ngl

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Anonymous #9 6d

Except weight isn’t generally due to genetics… it’s generally due to lifestyle.

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Anonymous #2 6d

It is factually mostly caused by genetics.

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Anonymous #9 6d

Right because if you take two identical twins and starve one they’ll stay the same weight. 😑

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Anonymous #2 5d

That's not what I said and I think you know that.

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Anonymous #9 5d

AMEN to that

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Anonymous #9 5d

I just used an extreme example to display the crack in your argument. While genetics can play a factor, weight is mostly caused be lifestyle. That’s a fact. Do people with similar genetics tend to have similar lifestyles? Sure. But if you were to separate family members and give them different lifestyles, their weight would reflect the lifestyle.

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Anonymous #2 5d

Yeah in extremes. But most people don't operate in extremes. Most people aren't crossfitters and most people aren't completely sedentary. The vast majority of people eat pretty much the same and have pretty much the same level of physical activity regardless of weight

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Anonymous #9 5d

And now you’re just being delusional. No the vast majority of people don’t eat “pretty much” the same 🤦🏽‍♀️ don’t honestly believe that? People eat different portion sizes and different foods. Some people drink mostly soda and others drink mostly water. People have different activity levels. Your weight is determined for the most part by how many calories you eat minus how many calories you burn. And it doesn’t even have to be in extremes for the differences in weight to be significant!

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Anonymous #9 5d

Where the heck do you live? Because I most certainly have met men like that…

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Anonymous #2 5d

You're the delusional one. There have been multiple scientific studies disproving your propaganda

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