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I, (21) F, wanted to have sex with my talking stage (22) M. He’s a virgin and I’m not, but he wanted to lose his virginity to me. The only issue was, he couldn’t get/stay hard. This happened on two separate occasions. Is he just not into women?
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Anonymous 10w

Brotha he might be gay 💀

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Anonymous 10w

I also considered that maybe he was just nervous because it was his first time, but then the second time wouldn’t make sense. Obv. There can be health conditions that affect erections too. He also might be addicted to p0rn? Idek

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Anonymous 10w

I’m thinking he probably has a porn addiction or something

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Anonymous 10w

Happened to me once but I hadn’t ate food in 2 days cuz i was broke and i atw a pizza and it fixed it

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Anonymous 9w

Porn and death grip syndrome

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

The p0rn thing is kinda a typical problem unfortunately it can happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Yeah honestly that’s my main prediction

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Performance anxiety is very real, and if he’s a virgin, I don’t see why it wouldn’t make sense the second time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Idk. It was a separate occasion and also during the daytime. And I know men have their highest test. levels in the morning

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Performance anxiety triggers fight or flight response which will turn off arousal for survival. Test levels are irrelevant if anxiety is the cause

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

performance anxiety is likely. i deal with it on occasion, especially first times w a new person. i can easily get in my head. just a confidence thing and he will get more comfortable w experience

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