I, (21) F, wanted to have sex with my talking stage (22) M. He’s a virgin and I’m not, but he wanted to lose his virginity to me. The only issue was, he couldn’t get/stay hard. This happened on two separate occasions. Is he just not into women?
I also considered that maybe he was just nervous because it was his first time, but then the second time wouldn’t make sense. Obv. There can be health conditions that affect erections too. He also might be addicted to p0rn? Idek
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Anonymous3w
I’m thinking he probably has a porn addiction or something
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Anonymous3w
Happened to me once but I hadn’t ate food in 2 days cuz i was broke and i atw a pizza and it fixed it
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Anonymous3w
Porn and death grip syndrome
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AnonymousOP3w
The p0rn thing is kinda a typical problem unfortunately it can happen
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Anonymous#23w
Yeah honestly that’s my main prediction
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AnonymousOP3w
Performance anxiety is very real, and if he’s a virgin, I don’t see why it wouldn’t make sense the second time.
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Anonymous#43w
Idk. It was a separate occasion and also during the daytime. And I know men have their highest test. levels in the morning
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AnonymousOP3w
Performance anxiety triggers fight or flight response which will turn off arousal for survival. Test levels are irrelevant if anxiety is the cause
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Anonymous#53w
performance anxiety is likely. i deal with it on occasion, especially first times w a new person. i can easily get in my head. just a confidence thing and he will get more comfortable w experience