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i'm finally coming to terms that I was raped. It was months ago by my boyfriend at the time and i wanted to see the good in him since he was my first time
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Anonymous 4w

Do you have the support you need? I’m so sorry that happened to you. You didn’t deserve that and it’s not your fault

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Anonymous 4w

this happened to me when i was 16… i’m 19 now and still struggling to come to terms with it. don’t rush your healing process, because trust, it’s a PROCESS. but, dm me if you need to talk, nobody deserves this. i’m so sorry. ❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous 4w

Same thing happened to me! Just because you loved him and he might have loved you does not mean that it wasn’t abuse!

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Anonymous 3w

I’m so sorry he did that.

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Anonymous 3w

i'm doing the same thing; he made me feel like i had to have sex and it was my first time too! healing is slow but sure, much love to you xx

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Anonymous 3w

People make rapists out to be total monsters but the terrible truth is they’re like everyone else in most ways.

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Anonymous 4w

Riiiiight

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Also taking time to come to terms with it is normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i really still haven't processed it- I knew i felt violated at the time i just idk it's weird i never thought that i'd have to deal with this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Take your time! You don’t have to figure it all out at once. Journaling and group therapy were super helpful for me. Also Prasosin for nightmares

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Fuck all the way off

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

No thanks!

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