i'm finally coming to terms that I was raped. It was months ago by my boyfriend at the time and i wanted to see the good in him since he was my first time
Do you have the support you need? I’m so sorry that happened to you. You didn’t deserve that and it’s not your fault
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Anonymous4w
this happened to me when i was 16… i’m 19 now and still struggling to come to terms with it. don’t rush your healing process, because trust, it’s a PROCESS. but, dm me if you need to talk, nobody deserves this. i’m so sorry. ❤️🩹
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Anonymous4w
Same thing happened to me! Just because you loved him and he might have loved you does not mean that it wasn’t abuse!
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Anonymous3w
I’m so sorry he did that.
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Anonymous3w
i'm doing the same thing; he made me feel like i had to have sex and it was my first time too! healing is slow but sure, much love to you xx
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Anonymous3w
People make rapists out to be total monsters but the terrible truth is they’re like everyone else in most ways.
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Anonymous4w
Riiiiight
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Anonymous#14w
Also taking time to come to terms with it is normal
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Anonymous#14w
i really still haven't processed it- I knew i felt violated at the time i just idk it's weird i never thought that i'd have to deal with this
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AnonymousOP4w
Take your time! You don’t have to figure it all out at once. Journaling and group therapy were super helpful for me. Also Prasosin for nightmares