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i’m 21 and have my first hookup coming up - i literally have no idea what to do, how to act or loosen up, pls give me all your learned wisdom
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Anonymous 25w

Just act natural. Don’t get nervous just cus you know what’s about to happen🤷‍♀️ let one thing lead to another and boom.

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Anonymous 25w

Be chill and it will be cool. If it already happened I hope it was good for both of you.

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Anonymous 25w

Just let her pop your cherry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 25w

i guess i just don’t really know what to expect, what kind of social etiquette to abide by, do i show up fitted uppp orrr

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

i am the “her” in this case and i’m not a virgin 😭 lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 25w

I recently had my first hookup and I just acted like we were friends hanging out. I wore a pretty casual fit but still what I felt confident in, yk jeans that made my booty look good😝 just treat it like a more casual fish date. I felt like a lot of the pressure was off cus I knew I didn’t wanna spend more than one night with the guy lmaooo. Good luck girl! I hope it’s soooo good

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 24w

it was alright!! we were vibing pretty well and talked about our common interests, it wasn’t weird or anything afterward luckily 😙😙

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

thank you! turned out alright, i’m vibing 😌

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

😊

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