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sorry y’all i just need some advice. i’m a virgin and i’m waiting for commitment but i’m talking to an older guy rn (23, i’m 19) and idk how to tell him that.
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Anonymous 20h

Most of us “older guys” (I’m 22) ain’t as experienced as you think. So it may help things

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Anonymous 18h

Just tell him that it’s super tight

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

That’s a good point. He didn’t go to college so he’s not some ex frat hoe. I just get scared to say I’m kinda waiting bc in my experience they usually don’t stick around.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Same way I feel about women and I’m a little older so the fear only gets worse tbh. Sometimes you just gotta go for it. And you’ll be surprised. But tbh I’m just speaking cuz I could never be honest cuz the fear of losing the opportunity haunts me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

I always have to be honest bc I wanna set the precedent straight. But I’m also always talking to guys that only wanna hookup bc they’re college boys

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Yea like I’m post grad so I want something fr now. But you are right about your crowd atm. I tell you it sounds fucked but. I wanna take care of a girl like you and we learn together even tho I am a little older. It feels way more comfortable to even think about tbh. I wanna learn with someone and idk if I ever will have that person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Yeah exactly I wanna trust someone and show them what I like and have them show me what they like. But it requires patience and it just seems like as I get older no one has that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Yea as you get older the less patient men are tbh. I ain’t gon lie i wanna have sex but not with anyone. I wanna do what you said. Build a genuine connection and learn what one likes and open myself for new things as well.

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