
I also feel like some guys actually think that if you have a lot of sex it becomes “loose”. Which is not true. Our vagina is a muscle and like any other muscle it can be relaxed, which you want it to be if you’re having sex or it’s going to be painful for her, or tensed, which is usually tight and will be painful for her and sometimes the guy if the woman hasn’t been prepared enough. Also our vaginas like any other muscle will go back to its original state after it has been worked out.
So even if a woman has a lot of sex which it really isn’t a guys business to know that. You wouldn’t be able to tell by if her vaginal canal is tense or relaxed. If you can slide it in easier, it’s relaxed, you’re doing something right . If you can’t and it’s a struggle and she’s not producing natural lubricant, she’s tense, you’re doing something wrong.
Thank you!! Explained it much better than I could’ve. And calling a woman “loose” is slut shaming, which is completely unacceptable and misogynistic. People shame Bonnie blue but have nothing to say about the many men or the industry that encourage, support, and pay into her career.