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should i try bdsm for the first time with a guy off tinder? like genuine question because i have never hooked up with anyone off dating apps
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Anonymous 3w

But set boundaries and safe words maybe 2nd date activity

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Anonymous 3w

is it so crazy that i hooked up with a random guy i met on a bus but scared of hooking up with someone on an app 😭😭

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Anonymous 3w

NO!!!! get to know him first don’t just go right into it

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Anonymous 3w

I did ngl it was fun but if it’s the same guy than no his mine

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Anonymous 3w

You should hang out with anyone you’re doing BDSM with before imo, you should build trust before putting yourself in a vulnerable position

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Anonymous 3w

NO

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

omggg thank uu yea i think bigger problem is that idk if domsub play is gonna be more extreme side but safe words kinda resolve that alr! will slide into his dm rn

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