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I started hooking up with this girl my sophomore and her freshman year of college. Very on and off. Now I’ve graduated and she’s a senior. She came over to see me this weekend and wow I can’t believe how much she’s acc let herself go. I feel so bad …
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Anonymous 3w

I hate men

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah this is kind of fucked. You could have said it’s a shame that I’m not attracted to her anymore without saying “she let herself go and I pity her” like that’s such a fucked up attitude

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Anonymous 3w

Men really do fuck anything with a vagina lmao. You complaining but still desperate enough to hit her up. Complain ab ts elsewhere

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Anonymous 3w

Let’s not have double standards please ladies, it’s not great when a guy gets mad that a girl isn’t attracted to something and it’s also not great to get mad at a guy because he’s not attracted to something

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Anonymous 3w

Jesus you’re a fucking ass. I thought I was shitty, but reading this made me feel like a great person 💀

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Anonymous 3w

As a girl I even agree, I’ve been with guys that are gorgeous basically and when I see them years later and they let themselves go, it’s not attractive

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Anonymous 3w

saying this, but having her here this weekend was so hard for me. I was just so unattracted to her and annoyed by her presence 😫. We are cool and I respect the times we had but this weekend was the last time we are ever hanging out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

i haven’t ever seen a girl make this post bro. like who gives a fuck. don’t be rude.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

and if a girl made this same post i’d be saying what the fuck too.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

literally who asked?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I mean that isn’t good either though

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Anonymous app. No one need to ask. Hope this helps 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Lol I don’t hit her up. She was spamming my phone telling me she’s gonna be in my city and if she can see me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You responded, block buttons exist. Sounds like you wanted the attention and again, you sound desperate

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Everyone getting mad like I expected. The double standards are crazy and ofc girls are always the loudest. At the end of the day I’m just saying what I feel. Doesn’t mean I made her feel any type of way or treated her bad. It’s just as simple as I’m really not attracted to her and shouldn’t see her again.

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Anonymous 3w

You said “I feel so bad”, that’s what I interpreted

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Okay now let’s relax and be so fr. Why would I block her for no reason 😂. I’ve known her for a while and never had a problem with her. She asked me a couple times about coming to see me and I was eventually reluctantly agreed. I am also not desperate, let’s not get that wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 3w

Okay then say that’s what you’re interpreting. You literally put it in quotation marks meaning that’s the exact thing I said. When it’s not 😂. Yall love spreading misinformation 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Why are you sending paragraphs bro😭 do you get off to ts or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah you’re right my bad for spreading misinformation on your literal post. Everyone probably read my comment and assumed they read the original post wrong and adopted my wild crazy version that’s totally different from the vibes of your post and that’s why they all hate you

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Stopppppp. You said something and I responded to you 😂. Why can’t people have a normal conversation without taking the bait.

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 3w

You quoted me saying shit didn’t say. Just hold your hands up and admit you made a mistake. Women and any form of accountability continues to remain a scary scary conversation. 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Stop harassing me. Go bother the "ugly" girl that supposedly only took a couple messages for you to get horny

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Bro said “harassing”. You call a woman out for her bs and then they straight play the victim card. Normally I don’t go back and forth with women but wow I’m in the mood today 😂. You’re stupid asf I’m just letting you know that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I meant it as a paraphrase which I fear was obvious given the context. I fully admit I may have been wrong about you saying you felt pity when you said you feel bad, maybe it was a rare moment of self awareness where you realized you were the asshole. But this whole argument is a red herring to avoid talking about your misogyny and terrible attitude towards women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You keep saying all over the comments how women won’t take accountability and how you can’t argue with a woman and they play the victim card while YOU refuse to acknowledge that everyone agrees you’re the asshole and refusing to take accountability for your words and acting like this girl is the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Doesn’t take much for you to pop a vein

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 3w

I’m not misogynistic, neither do I have a terrible attitude towards women. I treat every woman in my life with respect. I don’t understand why being called misogynistic is always the first defense play tho. I’m just speaking abt how I feel deep down abt my situation with this particular girl. I understand if you might not like it but that’s just how I feel totally unfiltered and honest.

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 3w

There nothing wrong with the girl. I never said there was. I just said I’m not attracted to her 😂.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

?😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oh my GOD you are the worst. “Always the first defense” have you considered doing some reflection on why women are ALWAYS calling you misogynistic? Let’s look at some direct quotes since you hate paraphrasing. “Women and any form of accountability continues to remain a scary scary conversation” “you call a woman out on her bs and then they straight play the victim card” do you really not see how these are misogynistic stereotypes? Like it’s textbook bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

And the OG, “she’s[…] let herself go” it’s harmful rhetoric about women’s bodies that implies women have some responsibility to keep themselves thin for you and are just lazy if they fail

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You didn’t just say you aren’t attracted to her, that would have been fine. It’s the way you said it and your attitude around her weight

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

that’s very rude to say. learn some basic human decency. hope this helps

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 3w

clocked perfectly

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 3w

I said I’m not attracted to her and the fact that she’s let herself go be the reason why. She doesn’t have to stay skinny for me, she can be whatever she wants to be 😂. And the reason I said women and accountability is scary cause I see women not taking accountability over and over again and just saw another blatant example with you wrongfully quoting me and still tryna justify it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Didn’t say it in real life or to anyone. Just expressed myself on an app in a way that doesn’t personally affect anyone. Hope this helps.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

it’s fucked up ideology but ok keep being an asshole guy who refuses to see other POVs.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

oooooh look who's not taking accountability here! it's you!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Shut your bitch ass up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

someones angry 🤭

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