Anonymous #5 3w

oh?

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Anonymous #2 3w

it is?

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Anonymous #4 3w

funny you say that, he got mad at me for yelling at him

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Anonymous #4 3w

and then called ME a jerk

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Anonymous #4 3w

he was like “I was so close you should’ve just let me finish” and he was still beating off and I was like “dude?!?… get out?!?!” and he was like “ok after i finish” so he finished on a towel and then i kicked him out

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Anonymous #4 3w

and then he texted me after like “you know you’re a real jerk for almost giving me blue balls” like bro what???

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Anonymous #4 3w

and he was like “You were teasing me with it so honestly it’s not my fault” and i’m like “NO I WASNT??????”

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Anonymous #5 3w

like fr?

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Anonymous #1 3w

ikr

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Anonymous #3 3w

yeah honestly i gotta stop being Bi and just date women because i am really tired of being mistreated by men

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Anonymous OP 3w

Also oww!

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Anonymous #6 3w

no, i don’t think i will *ba dum tsss*

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Anonymous #1 3w

i do anal recreationally so it wasn’t TOO painful, but it was sudden which did hurt

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Anonymous OP 3w

Should’ve picked my words more carefully lol

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Anonymous #6 3w

i’m lowkey bawling dude because i’ve known him for a few years and i thought he rlly liked me lol

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yeah that’s the thing about these assholes, they tend to like to hide who they truly are so it’s certainly not your fault.

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Anonymous #6 3w

is it dumb of me to mourn the loss of a relationship I could’ve had with a guy who, i guess, never really existed?

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Anonymous OP 3w

I don’t think so, It’s one of those things where you thought you were building something good with him and then he destroys it by taking advantage of your trust. Mourning for what you had is only natural.

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Anonymous OP 3w

No you could mourn the potential that you thought existed at one point. It sucks cause you can start to like someone’s potential way to quickly like before you really know the person. Idk if i should pump the breaks or remain the same.

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Anonymous OP 3w

I’m sorry hun :/

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yes. You consented to a certain thing and not others, and he went ahead and forced something on you that you didn’t consent to

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Anonymous OP 3w

Screenshot and report his ass to authorities

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Anonymous #9 3w

Who tf downvoted you

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Anonymous #6 3w

thanks guys this means a lot

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Anonymous #2 3w

that sucks

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Anonymous OP 3w

so blue balls don’t actually exist. that’s a lie created by men to try and guilt women convince into having sex with them

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Anonymous OP 3w

even if you were (which you weren’t obviously) no still means no. report him because i wouldn’t be surprised if he’s done this before to other women. he deserves to be in jail

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Anonymous #10 3w

This is in fact untrue https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epididymal_hypertension

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Anonymous OP 3w

Gurl I’ve quit with men before I’ve even started. I’m ignoring my bi attraction and only being with women like actually. Men disappoint. Also, call him out for assaulting you and then report him to the authorities. 🩷

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Anonymous #12 3w

I hope you reported him.💔

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Anonymous #13 3w

That can give you permanent damage so I hope you’re ok now

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Anonymous #14 3w

i would report him to authorities, but i don’t have a good experience with reporting stuff like this to authorities and i don’t trust them

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Anonymous #10 3w

i would but i really don’t like reporting stuff like this to authorities because of bad personal experiences, i think i might just get some friends and jump him

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Anonymous OP 3w

That’s fair. They usually do fuck all when it comes to assault. But what can work is blasting him on social media if you ever feel comfortable 🩷

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Anonymous #11 2w

okay mr. wickipedia, use better sources. Direct quote from the Cleveland Clinic: “Blue balls is a slang term referring to discomfort when sexual arousal doesn't lead to orgasm. **It's not a danger to your health and should pass quickly.”** From the National Institute of Health: **”This pain is not a valid reason to continue unwanted sexual activity.”**

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Anonymous #11 2w

here’s the sources btw: Cleveland Clinic: https://health.clevelandclinic.org/blue-balls NIH: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10155057/

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Anonymous OP 2w

ykw that’s valid. go off queen 😌💅

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