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What should I do if I cannot have an orgasm because my medication is preventing me from reaching it?
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Anonymous 10h

If you mean with a partner, be honest and upfront with them, and focus more on the journey than the destination. As a male on SSRIs and who just typically gets nervous, I’ve never finished with a partner, but every time has been a blast (maybe because it’s so infrequent, I’m just happy to be there). Solo play? Maybe a similar philosophy, or find other means of stimulation, like erotic audio or literature.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

Regardless, best of luck!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

no, solo masturbation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Yeah, sorry, I wish I had better advice. If I think of anything else, I’ll try to let you know. But I can sorta relate. Sometimes, I just give up and call it a day. Other times I just go for extra long until I finish.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2h

Aye, you’re the first person I’ve met even on yikyak who also deals with this! It can be frustrating and embarrassing, but I’ve found my partner to be surprisingly chill about it and I’ve learned to enjoy the experience so much more instead of treating it as a race to a goal

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2h

Also, a secret superpower of ours: if the only thing stopping you is eventually getting tired, you can usually last way longer than you would if you’d finished 😉

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