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When I was 13 I lost my virginity to my best friends 18yr old brother because I was going through a breakdown after being dumped (and told I was a joke) and this guy was cuddling me and just kept pushing me to sleep with him (no after care) it broke me
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Anonymous 4d

you did not lose your virginity to that man, he stole it. i’m so sorry.

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Anonymous 4d

that’s straight up rape. I’m so sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I think the saddest thing is another thing happened where I was almost gang raped 3 years later when I was 16 because I was put in an unsafe situation by someone I viewed as an older brother

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Luckily for me I had grown a bit and was able to get out of there but it’s sad to think

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Thank you. I’m 20 now and ive gone to therapy and stuff since then…the only way ive seen it affect me is I can’t sleep with someone unless im dating them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

keep that standard, it’s a good one to have, i’m glad you’re doing better <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Thank you…it’s always weird to talk about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

i’m a 🍇 victim too, i get it, i don’t think it ever gets easier to talk about. it’s not something we should’ve had to experience in the first place, evil world out there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Truly…and like I said in the comments it almost happened again because of someone I thought I could trust

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

my abuser was my ex boyfriend, believe me when i say i completely understand being betrayed but someone you thought you could trust with your life 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

It sucks truly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I’m sorry you had to go through that but I’m proud of you for the healing you have done and you will do

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