When I was 13 I lost my virginity to my best friends 18yr old brother because I was going through a breakdown after being dumped (and told I was a joke) and this guy was cuddling me and just kept pushing me to sleep with him (no after care) it broke me
you did not lose your virginity to that man, he stole it. i’m so sorry.
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Anonymous4d
that’s straight up rape. I’m so sorry
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Anonymous#14d
I think the saddest thing is another thing happened where I was almost gang raped 3 years later when I was 16 because I was put in an unsafe situation by someone I viewed as an older brother
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AnonymousOP4d
Luckily for me I had grown a bit and was able to get out of there but it’s sad to think
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Anonymous#24d
Thank you. I’m 20 now and ive gone to therapy and stuff since then…the only way ive seen it affect me is I can’t sleep with someone unless im dating them
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AnonymousOP4d
keep that standard, it’s a good one to have, i’m glad you’re doing better <3
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Anonymous#24d
Thank you…it’s always weird to talk about it
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AnonymousOP4d
i’m a 🍇 victim too, i get it, i don’t think it ever gets easier to talk about. it’s not something we should’ve had to experience in the first place, evil world out there
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Anonymous#24d
Truly…and like I said in the comments it almost happened again because of someone I thought I could trust
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AnonymousOP4d
my abuser was my ex boyfriend, believe me when i say i completely understand being betrayed but someone you thought you could trust with your life 😭
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Anonymous#24d
It sucks truly
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Anonymous#24d
I’m sorry you had to go through that but I’m proud of you for the healing you have done and you will do