Anonymous #1 12w

Tf

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Anonymous #1 12w

Ew wtf 😭 nah I walk back over to him and called him skid marker

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Anonymous OP 12w

Good for you, hope you left too

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Anonymous #2 12w

100%

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Anonymous OP 12w

Good

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Anonymous #3 12w

Yeah, if you can’t even wipe your ass tho that’s a whole different level of gross

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Anonymous #1 12w

valid question

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Anonymous #3 12w

People realize that your first impression was the best they’d ever see of your place, and it was still gross

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Anonymous #7 12w

I mean, not really? First impressions aren’t always everything Y’know?

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Anonymous #3 12w

But he also could have picked up his shit filled underwear from the floor… like he was aware they were there… 😬😬

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Anonymous #3 12w

Every boyfriend I have ever dated the cleanest their place has ever been is the first time I saw their apartment. If the first time I see your apartment it’s gross- I ain’t coming back

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Anonymous OP 12w

Yeah, that’s fucking Gross as shit man

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Anonymous #7 12w

Yeah, I understand that. I think mine maybe was just a special case because it was someone I knew that we bumped into each other here on yikyak and things just, escalated from there, it wasn’t planned at all so even if I wanted to clean it up I just didn’t have time. Idk, maybe it was just an embarrassing hookup for her but I developed feelings and it sucked, it’s a long story. I just, have no idea what to do now, Y’know?

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Anonymous #3 12w

Maybe don’t invite a girl over if you’re messy as fuck lmao. Probably gave her the ick. If you actually had feelings for her you should’ve taken her on a date, not just rush to hookup. You did it to yourself, man

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Anonymous #3 12w

Ive had long term depression too and always managed to wipe my ass…

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Anonymous #8 12w

I wipe my ass and don’t have skid marks, I’ve explicitly said that. That wasn’t the issue, it’s that I hadn’t cleaned my toilet or sink yet for 2 weeks. I may be sad and lazy and sleep all day because my life sucks ass and I hate myself, but I least know to wipe my ass and shower every day thank you very much, I’m not THAT disgusting as the person described in the original post.

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Anonymous #7 12w

Hey don’t look at me, that part wasn’t my fault. She was the one who was looking and explicitly told me a month later that she only did it because she was feeling lonely and was having a bad day. We just met off of yikyak, not even knowing that we already knew each other irl for the first 30 minutes until she figured out it was me and then wanted to hookup despite it feeling really awkward as shit because we both assumed we where talking to complete strangers.(1/?)

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Anonymous #7 12w

Later she said she just thought our personalities just didn’t mix well because tbh? We didn’t really share anything in common, at all, and that’s she feels bad for giving me mixed signals. But either way? You’re right, because I didn’t rush to clean my bathroom because the whole thing felt like a fever dream, like it wasn’t actually happening, I fucked it up for myself.

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Anonymous #7 12w

The problem is that saying that? It gives me a false hope or a mental lie I could tell myself that if I had done one little thing differently or just cleaned my toilet then she would have stayed or something, and that’s kind of a problem because it feels like I’m denying her the agency to just actually not like me personally, clean or not.

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Anonymous #7 12w

So what do you think? If I had just done one small thing differently like clean my bathroom that day you think she would have stayed? I personally doubt it, because what if she actually just didn’t like me personally because we had nothing in common, barely anything in common at MOST, so a date or a cleaner bathroom would have been useless from the start?

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Anonymous #3 12w

I think if you actually invited her on a real date you’d have a chance rather than try and hookup with her in a gross ass apartment. Dates are to find out what you do have and common. Now you know nothing about eachother except awkward sex and a dirty room

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Anonymous #3 12w

So work on yourself and heal before you get in a relationship then

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