Chose the right person and don’t be afraid to wait until they come around - #5 is right - it’s all about feeling safe.

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Learn how to spell virgin.. and expect pain

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dont expect anything literally

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make sure you have good foreplay before, it might hurt a little either during or after (if hurt after for me) but tell the dude to go slow, if you haven’t been fingered ever start with that before actually have sex

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relax and let your partner lead. if you don’t feel safe knowing they will be gentle with you and take care of you? run. 🤷‍♀️

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