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Slept with a dude who had HIV. freaked out. got tested, negative 🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳 Safe to say never having a hookup again. I’m traumatized
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Anonymous 19w

I think that technically qualifies as assault if he knew and didn’t tell you beforehand

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Anonymous 19w

FYI it can take months after contact for it to show up positive on a test. U should get tested again in a month or 2

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Anonymous 19w

obviously he shouldve disclosed his status but if he's undetectable then he cant give it to other people. also theres a medication called PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) u can take

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Anonymous 19w

Do you know if he’s on medication that prevents transmission?

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Anonymous 19w

How did you find out he had HIV? That’s so scary

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Anonymous 19w

Wtf

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Anonymous 19w

That’s scary asf. How did u even find out?

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Anonymous 19w

Please go to the doctor ASAP if this was recent. You should take post exposure profollaxis PEP

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Anonymous 19w

Holy shit

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Anonymous 19w

Sooooooo was he undetectable, did you get the PEP talk with your doctor, did he tell you after you guys fucked? So many questions I need answers to :/

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Anonymous 19w

get on prep like now

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Anonymous 19w

thats borderline sa if he didnt tell u

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Anonymous 19w

How did you find out

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Anonymous 18w

U guys fucked raw?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19w

It depends on the state. In the state I’m from, it’s a class B felony not to disclose HIV before sexual intercourse https://revisor.mo.gov/main/OneSection.aspx?section=191.677&bid=9628

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

Yes. There also might be prescriptions you can take to prevent it taking hold in your body but don’t quote me on that as I’m not a doctor. Do your research.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 19w

You have to take PEP 72 hours after exposure though

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

That’s what I was thinking. HIV never shows up immediately there’s a three month window period.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

This was about a month or twoish months ago and i just found out he had HIV from another girl who reached out to me! but i’m definitely still going to take another test probably continue testing because i’m paranoid and want to be for sure ! :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19w

I honestly have no idea, i hope so

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19w

A girl reached out to me. i guess she reached out to a few girls to let them know. I was curious if she contracted it from him or gave it to him and discovered that

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 19w

A girl reached out to me! I’m not sure how she knew , but he ended up saying he didn’t then saying he did then didn’t again. He was definitely scared and trying to get out of the situation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 19w

He did not, and he’s been like on and off lying abt it it’s weirddd

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 19w

sounds like it’s a chick. do chicks take prep?

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 19w

Anyone can

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 19w

It’s even safe for women who are pregnant and breast-feeding

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 19w

TAKE THIS!!!! Within 72 hours of exposure!!!!! Any person can, man or woman

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Threaten him with the police, dude needs to learn his hard lesson and be responsible

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