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Normalize wearing condoms (especially with hookups), wtf.
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Anonymous 19w

Was it not normalized already?

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Anonymous 19w

As a woman, I HATE CONDOMS. I can’t handle the texture, the fake lube, the way it slides up and down no matter what size. I’ve tried so many and I’d rather get pregnant. But like men work on your pull out game

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Anonymous 19w

This!

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Anonymous 19w

I don’t wear a condom when hooking up because if it’s casual we’re not having sex.

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Anonymous 19w

I get allergic reactions to every condom I’ve used…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

Not enough apparently

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

Lots of women hate condoms but people pretend it’s only guys for some reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

And that kids is how you get STDs

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 19w

Maybe if you have a lot of partners, no condoms with someone you trust/are dating is a different story

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

Well we don’t know if #8 has one partner they never clarified they just said men work on your pull out game

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 19w

I don’t fuck around. I have ONE partner at a time. THATS how you don’t get stds. Having multiple is just gross

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

Dude this is all I was trying to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

I get not liking the feeling but with the state of the country rn, I’m not risking having a whole ass child that I’ll have for life just because I didn’t like the feel of a condom. And plan b’s and abortions can be traumatic for people to get as well. I’ll deal with the condom over all that other shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

Having one partner at a time does not automatically mean you won’t get an STD lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> dark_blue_bicycle69 19w

Then you’re allergic to latex. Get a condom that isn’t latex. I promise you you’re not allergic to every single condom out there on the market.

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Anonymous replying to -> e.odon04 19w

Mmmmmmmm illl go raw but that’s really valuable information I’m happy to know

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Anonymous replying to -> dark_blue_bicycle69 19w

I mean if you wanna pay child support or get an std then go for it.

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Anonymous replying to -> e.odon04 19w

Exactly, just bc they are your only partner at a time, doesn’t mean you aren’t their only partner. Or even if both of you are exclusive, doesn’t mean your partner isn’t accidentally spreading something to you from a previous encounter before you. The notion of “one partner at a time” only works if these factors are accounted for

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Anonymous replying to -> e.odon04 19w

True

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

you can get pregnant from precum or he could finish in you anyway. pulling out doesn’t do much

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

as a woman they are wrong you literally cannot feel a condom, or at least that's how me and the 11 other girls i just asked say

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Anonymous 19w

Y’all be the hundreds having sex? 😳

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Anonymous 19w

I thought you meant like 100 bodies😭. But yea that’s true

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

Have you ever been pregnant? Because this sounds like something only someone who doesn’t know what it’s like would say. Also there are TONS of health reasons why you should definitely make sure you’re wearing a condom. The most basic one being that a guy’s sperm severely throws off your PH balance which can make you smell terrible, itch, pee blood, and get an infection only treatable by the doctor. Peeing everytime is good, but not fool proof. These things are genuinely there for a reason.

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Anonymous 19w

Are you fertile?

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Anonymous 19w

Not denying your point, I just wanted to say that some people are more fertile than others and you never really know who them at person might be

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Anonymous 19w

It could also be that your bf has a lower sperm count/some possible infertility on your end which allows him to do that. But with most men precum can still get you pregnant.

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Anonymous 19w

I often can’t tell before it starts. No pullout for me!

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 19w

lol pulling out has saved me for 5 years and counting. The whole “pregnancy from pre” is such a scare tactic

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

I literally got pregnant from pre?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

It varies from person to person

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 19w

Yes. My man does not throw me off. Not a damn thing. Maybe if yall weren’t sleeping around you wouldn’t have your body doing that. That’s literally the warning sign. I also don’t pee after. That’s another scare tactic. Look into it, it was disproven

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

I legit only have one body. I literally lost my V card less than a year ago. I didn’t sleep around????

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

Dude just do research. Your experience is not what everyone else experiences. You just must not be very fertile.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

Also I think you need to look it up. “A healthy vagina naturally maintains an acidic environment (pH of 3.8 to 4.5) to keep harmful bacteria in check. Because semen is alkaline (pH of 7.2 to 8.0), ejaculating inside the vagina neutralizes this acidity, allowing healthy flora to be disrupted and certain bacteria to overgrow.”

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Anonymous 19w

People argue to make a point that doesn’t exist. I’ve been trying to say this and 15 can’t seem to get past their fucking pride

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 17w

Highly doubt it. There had to be some that came out before pulling out. Also don’t fuck on ovulation dude. Not that difficult. You are literally fertile for about 5 days out of the month

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

highly fertile*. we are highly fertile for a few days every month. there is always a chance for pregnancy throughout the month. it’s just higher during ovulation

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Anonymous replying to -> dark_blue_bicycle69 17w

I agree with you. These people can’t see another perspective but their own

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

Ykw you do you. I cannot keep wasting my life arguing with ignorant people. History would obviously tell you that people historically don’t live as long as they do now and that infections were common, but I’m sure if you cared about educating yourself you would have figured it out by yourself. Good luck!

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 17w

You cannot say that you can get pregnant in luteal phase. You can’t. Unless you release another egg. You cannot get pregnant unless the egg is released (ovulation). You “could” get pregnant on your period only if you release the egg soon after your period. Sperm can live up to 5 days. If you get pregnant not on ovulation or around it it’s bc your body fucked up and released another egg. I promise you I have done hell of a lot more research than you on this. I am actively ttc.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

Ykw, I’m gonna stick to my original plan and not say all that.

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