
1. You can never 100% trust anybody. People cheat all the time. You might trust your partner to be transparent, but they can always violate that trust. 2. I don’t know your sexuality or gender, but pregnancy is a thing, too. 3. People can get STIs in ways other than having sex. Your partner could get an STI without having cheated. 4. There are many STIs with are asymptomatic at first. Your partner might be fully transparent, but it doesn’t matter if they don’t know what they have.
I get not liking the feeling but with the state of the country rn, I’m not risking having a whole ass child that I’ll have for life just because I didn’t like the feel of a condom. And plan b’s and abortions can be traumatic for people to get as well. I’ll deal with the condom over all that other shit.
Exactly, just bc they are your only partner at a time, doesn’t mean you aren’t their only partner. Or even if both of you are exclusive, doesn’t mean your partner isn’t accidentally spreading something to you from a previous encounter before you. The notion of “one partner at a time” only works if these factors are accounted for