
I get not liking the feeling but with the state of the country rn, I’m not risking having a whole ass child that I’ll have for life just because I didn’t like the feel of a condom. And plan b’s and abortions can be traumatic for people to get as well. I’ll deal with the condom over all that other shit.
Exactly, just bc they are your only partner at a time, doesn’t mean you aren’t their only partner. Or even if both of you are exclusive, doesn’t mean your partner isn’t accidentally spreading something to you from a previous encounter before you. The notion of “one partner at a time” only works if these factors are accounted for
Have you ever been pregnant? Because this sounds like something only someone who doesn’t know what it’s like would say. Also there are TONS of health reasons why you should definitely make sure you’re wearing a condom. The most basic one being that a guy’s sperm severely throws off your PH balance which can make you smell terrible, itch, pee blood, and get an infection only treatable by the doctor. Peeing everytime is good, but not fool proof. These things are genuinely there for a reason.
Also I think you need to look it up. “A healthy vagina naturally maintains an acidic environment (pH of 3.8 to 4.5) to keep harmful bacteria in check. Because semen is alkaline (pH of 7.2 to 8.0), ejaculating inside the vagina neutralizes this acidity, allowing healthy flora to be disrupted and certain bacteria to overgrow.”
Ykw you do you. I cannot keep wasting my life arguing with ignorant people. History would obviously tell you that people historically don’t live as long as they do now and that infections were common, but I’m sure if you cared about educating yourself you would have figured it out by yourself. Good luck!
You cannot say that you can get pregnant in luteal phase. You can’t. Unless you release another egg. You cannot get pregnant unless the egg is released (ovulation). You “could” get pregnant on your period only if you release the egg soon after your period. Sperm can live up to 5 days. If you get pregnant not on ovulation or around it it’s bc your body fucked up and released another egg. I promise you I have done hell of a lot more research than you on this. I am actively ttc.