
I am so glad that he’s okay! Maybe see if he wants to go get coffee one day or go to the book store so that yall can get to know each other better! And hopefully, if it doesn’t work out, y’all can still be friends and see if he needs someone to occasionally talk to about some of his past. Sometimes people just need a good friend!
My best advice is to be so super careful. My ex (who i had gotten back with for just one weekend) had made me feel/ touch that area. On purpose. Sometimes it can be very damaging to your mental health too. I had to start going to therapy immediately after. Sometimes there is something wrong with their mental health still even when they disagree and say they’ve gotten help. My situation also caused dv. So please just be super careful !!!!!!!
Also make sure that if you further any relationship with this person, to ask about their mental health over their whole life. My ex for example had disclosed to me that he tried to OD a long time ago and I felt so sorry for him. He had sworn that he wouldn’t do that ever again. And then when we were dating and life got really really rough, He then tried to take my medication from me to OD again and that led to him beating and strangling me. Just be very very VERYYYYY careful and Cautious.