I think it was just the move of an asshole honestly. Not saying your question or concern isn’t valid but I’m not sure I would classify that as sa

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truths from me. i know that if he had told me the truth and not been such a coward i would not have consented- i had sex because of the underlying belief we both loved each other. once i found out i felt so... used, and told him so and he quickly said 'oh i still love you, i'm just not in love with you.' but he still hid it and had sex with me while knowing it, and i didn't feel any better. i don't know what to call this situation... was it sa, was it just the move of an asshole?

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There’s so many different types of sexual assault so I understand questioning it, but this does not count as sexual assault. Your feelings are valid and what he did was messed up, definitely an asshole.

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He’s js an asshole not sa

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