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Said I only wanted to give him head, he said it’s fine. But when we met he kept trying to put it in even when I said no. I had to tell him 10 times no. And even then he’d try when I was distracted and when I tried to push him away he pulled my hair
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Anonymous 1d

Ummm, thats assault.

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Anonymous 15h

Unfortunately most men I’ve tried to hook up with without sex have tried to pressure me in some way or another, rape culture is so normalized they don’t even see anything wrong with it. But what this guy did definitely crosses the line into assault and I’m so sorry that happened to you.

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Anonymous 16h

This happened to me. I stopped trusting after wards.

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Anonymous 9h

Funny I’m a guy and girls can be pushy too. Girls just assume guys want to fuck even if we think it’s too soon.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yea.. that’s what I thought but I kept telling myself that since he never actually did it maybe it wasn’t. I guess so I didn’t have to think about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I always encourage filing a report. But even if you don’t want want to, I recommend just discussing it with a local victims advocate.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Yeah it’s attempted assault, I’m so sorry love

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

I managed to get him off of me and run out of his house but then Bro started following me. It sucks that this normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5h

not to be that guy but it’s battery and sexual assault not attempted assault, attempted assault isn’t a thing but attempted sexual assault might be

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4h

I meant attempted sexual assault that’s my fault. To me it sounds like attempted because she kept saying he was trying to but never actually did. Doesn’t take away from her experience tho and how awful that is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4h

i fully agree, just trying to fix that it’s fully sa, at least from what op said

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