
i respect your opinion but i disagree. constantly clutching our pearls at anything abortion related even by āpro choiceā people is the reason itāll always be stigmatized. being pro choice shouldnāt mean that abortion is shameful but should be accessible. it should be something that can be brought up lightly
Iām not saying itās shameful, thereās a huge downside to both sides is what I mean. But this hat is not bringing it up lightly, itās very in your face and heavy with its connotation. Is it funny to some yes, but if ur trying to have a real discussion/debate i feel like it is the obviously wrong approach. It is distasteful
it would be distasteful to those grieving their abortions but not everybody sees abortion as a ālife lostā and sometimes itās just something that has to be done for their wellbeing. those people should be able to make jokes about it if they want to. but again i respect that some people might not find it funny but itās not inherently ābadā to have no shame about a healthcare procedure
Ig when u put it that way that makes sense. I canāt deny I would have a knee jerk reaction but maybe bc I jus feel like if someone is to be making this joke in the first place, Iād assume they wouldnāt be ready for a conversation like this. Who am I to assume things tho, ty for ur insight
itās hard because in a perfect world it shouldnāt be stigmatized at all since itās so personal to women. but because itās so personal it can be both positive or negative. iād never make a joke like this to debate someone but i also wouldnāt be debating on bodily autonomy bc it should be common sense but yeah itās important not to make jokes about it to people who had a negative or traumatizing experience with it. itās only important that itās healthcare