
i respect your opinion but i disagree. constantly clutching our pearls at anything abortion related even by “pro choice” people is the reason it’ll always be stigmatized. being pro choice shouldn’t mean that abortion is shameful but should be accessible. it should be something that can be brought up lightly
I’m not saying it’s shameful, there’s a huge downside to both sides is what I mean. But this hat is not bringing it up lightly, it’s very in your face and heavy with its connotation. Is it funny to some yes, but if ur trying to have a real discussion/debate i feel like it is the obviously wrong approach. It is distasteful
it would be distasteful to those grieving their abortions but not everybody sees abortion as a “life lost” and sometimes it’s just something that has to be done for their wellbeing. those people should be able to make jokes about it if they want to. but again i respect that some people might not find it funny but it’s not inherently “bad” to have no shame about a healthcare procedure
Ig when u put it that way that makes sense. I can’t deny I would have a knee jerk reaction but maybe bc I jus feel like if someone is to be making this joke in the first place, I’d assume they wouldn’t be ready for a conversation like this. Who am I to assume things tho, ty for ur insight
it’s hard because in a perfect world it shouldn’t be stigmatized at all since it’s so personal to women. but because it’s so personal it can be both positive or negative. i’d never make a joke like this to debate someone but i also wouldn’t be debating on bodily autonomy bc it should be common sense but yeah it’s important not to make jokes about it to people who had a negative or traumatizing experience with it. it’s only important that it’s healthcare