what capability is there to value if other people are also capable of getting in shape, moving their body, and having a more aesthetically appealing body? at that point, i really wish i could feel good despite that, but i don’t think i can

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Anonymous #2 39w

no i’m not. you got to have insertions that didn’t make you insecure, i can’t definitively say the same

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i get that maintaining mobility is important, but it honestly feels like it’d be difficult to appreciate it if i don’t like my body

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Anonymous OP 39w

If you’re worried about insertions you’re overthinking and making excuses.

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the whole point was to be able to get to a point that i don’t feel bad about my body. if i have bad insertions, which would obstruct that goal, then… for example, my calf insertions are relatively high and so they barely grow and i literally don’t like wearing shorts. that will likely never change

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thanks for the encouragement. i have tried speaking to a professional (and even had a personal trainer for a bit of time), then also tried other sport activities (bjj and climbing), but not much luck with any of that

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Anonymous #3 39w

in the real world i feel like i see people with better insertions than me still tbh (at least for calves). i also admittedly didn’t have much faith that i’d actually change the way i feel about my body if i were to gain muscle since i might not like the way it looks

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is it even worth it anymore if my mindset hasn’t changed at all after what i’ve tried so far? plus for the calf things, what were the guy’s insertions like? if they were low, i wouldn’t be surprised if he were actually able to grow them

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