
for context i’m 5’6” and at least 250. i’m super bulky so i’ve always been over the average weight, even as a kid (doctor considered me obese even when i had a flat stomach). i’ve hated my body pretty much my entire life. my ex was ashamed of me and my weight. i’m just so tired of being fat and ugly
It takes time. When you first start, you may not see changes for weeks. I just put your information through a TDEE calculator (5’6, 250 lbs, assuming you’re 19) and 2311 cals is how much you should be eating to maintain your physique. To lose weight, you need to eat about 1811 calories which is doable. My favorite is Fage 0% greek yogurt with berries and honey for breakfast and it clocks about 250 calories with 25g of protein. You can keep this stuff in your mini fridge if you have one.
Increase your activity level and decrease your caloric deficit slightly. Aim to lose 0.5 lbs each week if you need a general outline to follow. If you struggle with exercise the incline treadmill can be a great way without feeling exhausted. Daily consistency will always beat novelty.