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I feel like people look at me like, here’s comes another fat girl starting her new year’s resolution she’ll never complete. I actually just found out I have pcos (medical condition) and I finally know what I need to do and why my weight got so bad.
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Anonymous 5w

There's a difference between "it's feels like people are looking" and "people are actually staring at me". It's just anxiety. No one is paying for a gym just to stare are judge people. Most probably don't even notice you're there because they're focused on their own thing

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Anonymous 5w

I guarantee you almost everyone at the gym is either thinking about their workout or what they’re going to eat after

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Anonymous 5w

Everyone at the gym just wants you to make progress!

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Anonymous 5w

girl you got it!

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Anonymous 5w

99% of people wont think like that. you probably are seeing some insta/tiktok posts about the new years resolution crowd but its more about the slight inconvenience of having more crowded gyms than singling out a specific fat person. i know its easier said than done if you have anxiety but dont worry about people judging you and just work on what you need to do to get healthy and stay consistent and you will do great

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I appreciate this, but the only reason I even made this comment was because I’ve seen lots of social media posts from people mocking fat women/people in the gym this time of year. Someone’s thinking (for the likes maybe), but hopefully nobody at my gym lol.

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