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I hope this is appropriate to post here. I’m a girl and I was wondering what everyone thought about approaching my gym crush? I don’t want to weird him out or make him feel self conscious. But I don’t have any other ways of meeting people.. thoughts?
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Anonymous 2d

If you are putting out the vibe that you like him I’m sure he would love to be approached. I think being approached in the gym would be the best place because it is where I go to improve myself. I feel like that would instantly validate the work I’ve been doing.

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Anonymous 2d

I’ve been approached in the gym before and as long as you aren’t weird abt it, he’ll probably love it! I would start by maybe asking abt what workout he’s doing(if it’s interesting or new) an feel the conversation out from there

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Anonymous 2d

Absolutely you should. It will make his day and who knows maybe it’s your husband.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

This is exactly my thought process!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Thank you!! had some guy in my DMs say it would make me look like a bitch so thank you for encouraging me to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

That’s a pretty weird take he had imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Yeah what 😭. You are the woman in most scenarios it should be the dude to make the first move, but the gym is different since guys don’t want to be creepy and make any girl feel uncomfortable at the gym. He most likely won’t ever come up to u so make the move 🤷‍♂️

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