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I JUST WANT A NON-LUSTFUL GUY WITH A GOOD FACE CARD WITH BIG MUSCLES AND AN ACTUAL LIFE WITH A PERSONALITY IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK😫😖
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Anonymous 5d

Guy here, if he really likes you for who you are (even if you are beautiful) it would be impossible for him to even imagine objectifying you. y’all either need to be friends for a bit to really care about who each of you are before moving further OR as a couple you need to agree early on to wait a little while on physical intimacy (even kissing) until you both really care about the other as a person. I’m not sure if i’m adding to conversation or not but hope this helps 👍

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Anonymous 5d

Girl sometimes I think those first 7 words are too much to ask I swear

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Anonymous 5d

A non-lustful guy who also has a lot of testosterone running through his system due to all the working out he’s been doing? That you are lusting over for his physique? 🤨

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Anonymous 4d

That is a lot to ask for. Most men do not have all that combined

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Anonymous 4d

Define big muscles

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

That’s why i put them first, it’s rough out here🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Ngl it sounds like you want a gay roommate

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

It’s about the mindset and self control aspect

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Why tf would you want a guy who’s not physically into you? Genuinely confused by this

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Being into someone and seeing them as an object to use are two different things, I’m talking about genuinely caring about someone as a person and not just to get sex out of a relationship :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

It’s not that. It’s just most of the time guys are wanting intimacy right away and get upset when girls don’t want that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

So you want a guy who wants more than sex. That’s very different from wanting a guy who doesn’t lust after you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

True, those guys do kinda ruin it for others

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Speak for yourself, not all girls are opposed to intimacy right away

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Then this isn’t for you. And that’s okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

I never said that. I just said guys get upset if a girl is opposed to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Fair point

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

It just sounded like you were wanting something that isn’t real, based on your initial description anyway. I now see that it was just poor phrasing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

lol that’s my bad, genuinely how should I phrase it so I don’t mess it up again💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

You want a guy who wants you for who you are, not just for sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

what is that meme with the switches that when u turn one on some of the others turn off so u can never have them all?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Exactly

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