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Gym 33w
I JUST WANT A NON-LUSTFUL GUY WITH A GOOD FACE CARD WITH BIG MUSCLES AND AN ACTUAL LIFE WITH A PERSONALITY IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK😫😖
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Anonymous 33w

Guy here, if he really likes you for who you are (even if you are beautiful) it would be impossible for him to even imagine objectifying you. y’all either need to be friends for a bit to really care about who each of you are before moving further OR as a couple you need to agree early on to wait a little while on physical intimacy (even kissing) until you both really care about the other as a person. I’m not sure if i’m adding to conversation or not but hope this helps 👍

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Anonymous 33w

Girl sometimes I think those first 7 words are too much to ask I swear

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Anonymous 33w

A non-lustful guy who also has a lot of testosterone running through his system due to all the working out he’s been doing? That you are lusting over for his physique? 🤨

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Anonymous 32w

Define big muscles

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

That’s why i put them first, it’s rough out here🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

Ngl it sounds like you want a gay roommate

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

It’s about the mindset and self control aspect

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 33w

Why tf would you want a guy who’s not physically into you? Genuinely confused by this

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

Being into someone and seeing them as an object to use are two different things, I’m talking about genuinely caring about someone as a person and not just to get sex out of a relationship :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

It’s not that. It’s just most of the time guys are wanting intimacy right away and get upset when girls don’t want that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 33w

So you want a guy who wants more than sex. That’s very different from wanting a guy who doesn’t lust after you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

True, those guys do kinda ruin it for others

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

Speak for yourself, not all girls are opposed to intimacy right away

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

Then this isn’t for you. And that’s okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

I never said that. I just said guys get upset if a girl is opposed to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

Fair point

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 33w

It just sounded like you were wanting something that isn’t real, based on your initial description anyway. I now see that it was just poor phrasing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

lol that’s my bad, genuinely how should I phrase it so I don’t mess it up again💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 33w

You want a guy who wants you for who you are, not just for sex

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