
Toning is just building muscle and having a decently low body fat percentage. Getting bulky is HARD, so I wouldn’t worry about it. If you theoretically were to find yourself getting bulkier than you wish (this would be over years of lifting), simply cut back on the weights! As a new lifter, you can gain muscle, even on a cut, so #1 and #2’s advice is solid.
As for specific exercises, you can’t really go wrong with almost any beginner routine given your goals. You should try to building up a baseline amount of functional strength with presses, squats, and other compound movements, and then add in some isolation exercises in places you want to see growth (e.g. biceps, triceps, quads, hamstrings, calves, etc.). Just make sure your training isn’t too unbalanced toward certain muscles (e.g. not working chest/back at all, working opposing muscles . . .