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Gym 5w
So how do I get a guys attention at the gym? I get scared and super nervous
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Anonymous 5w

I wouldn’t recommend approaching someone while they’re working out. It’s not really considerate to interrupt someone’s focus like that. However, if you go and talk to him after he finishes, I say go for it. I’d literally just go up and start a conversation. Guys don’t get approached much, so I’m sure you’ll get his attention if you do that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m east going up to anyone. I wanted to get their attention. I don’t pursue men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

When you’re at a gym, you’re going to be focused on your workout, not much else. If you want this guy, you are going to have to make the first move.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

As a guy at the gym, I try to mostly focus on my workout and be respectful of the people around me focusing on theirs, I usually wouldnt pay attention enough to another person to notice anything. I’m also coked up on pre workout and lack of sleep, so my vision is a little blurry and my brain don’t work good.

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