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So I’m a girl just now getting into the workout world and I was wondering is it possible to get stronger without getting the buff muscle look? Maybe have a few defining lines but not too much yk. And how would I achieve that?
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Anonymous 24w

Girl I’ve been lifting weights with the goal of getting buff and muscular for like 3 years and i don’t even look like I workout unless I’m flexing. Just do whatever workouts you want and don’t worry about that.

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Anonymous 24w

Oh yeah ditch that worry OP. The amount of food a person has to eat to get “buff” takes a tremendous amount of focus that won’t happen by accident.

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Anonymous 24w

It’ll take a LOT of effort to look really buff, work out intensively and normally and see when you’re happy with your strength

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Anonymous 24w

you’re not just going to get ripped by accident, trust. your body is actually going to resist that 😂

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Anonymous 24w

“So I’m a girl getting into a swimming and I was wondering how do I avoid becoming an Olympic swimmer?” Trust me you’re not gonna get buff if you’re asking this, for women starting out any “bulk” you get from the gym is just excess body fat over muscle

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Anonymous 24w

Most women who are super buff aren’t natural. But even those who are buff and natty- it takes YEARS and I mean YEARS to get there and it’s never by accident. If you are lifting, i recommend do it for health and not for chasing a certain aesthetic. Our bodies have their own form that they grow into once they get healthy and you can only control it to an extent. I recommend jsut eat healthy and lift in a progressive overload so you can get stronger and in the long term prevent osteoporosis

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Anonymous 24w

You can’t get buff by accident. As a woman just getting stronger is a challenge for us compared to men. I’d love to share with you what my gym split looks like if you’d like to go more in depth in dms! Also physical appearance is 80% diet and only 20% exercise. Eating clean with a a focus on protein will be the most important part of your journey

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Anonymous 24w

lol, “i dont want to look like a completr savage, world class bodybuilding on accident”

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Anonymous 24w

i think youre talking about getting toned and adding muscle without it pushing your fat to the spotlight but thats more into body recomp if you want to maintain your figure. if you mean you dont want to get ripped and shredded then trust me it wont happen unless if u consistently workout and grind for a good 5-10+ years

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Anonymous 24w

Thank you all so much !!

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Anonymous 24w

search it up on youtube I think there’s some videos they explain how!

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Anonymous 24w

You are not gonna get buff by accident LMAO

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Anonymous 24w

Work out your inner core instead of obliques, and avoid overworking your delts and quads. Those are the most noticeable muscles on muscular women. Working out your back muscles, inner thigh, and back thigh make you look toned but not boxy or masculine.

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Anonymous 24w

MAAM, as a woman with XX chromosomes, you don’t have the testosterone needed to buff up. Workout and enjoy it 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 24w

Yes please!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 24w

I would love to see your split and what your meals look like!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 24w

So for my meals I don’t count calories or anything, I’ve had an ED before so instead I’m just mindful of protein. But a good rule of thumb is .7-1 gram of protein per pound you weigh if you do want to count! Also sticking to whole ingredients is best overall. And for gym, I have a 4 day split, I do push, legs, pull, legs. I can show you my exact exercises if you’d like

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 24w

Thank you 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 24w

yea real🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

to add, you will build muscle faster as a new lifter, and it’ll be more muscle than fat unless you’re gaining weight too fast (from eating too much obviously)

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 23w

“back thigh”💀

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