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Question for all women, so the gym I go to there’s this one girl who appears to be a couple years older than me but she stares at me a lot and doesn’t try to hide it. I’ve always been one to never approach esp in the gym so what do you think I should do?
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Anonymous 9w

Do you notice she looks at you because you're already looking at her? If you're like hyper aware of her it might be a case where yall just keep staring at each other. Might be at the gym without her glasses too and something on you catcher her eye. You could always try to approach if you want but just don't interrupt a set and be prepared if it's just coincidence

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Anonymous 9w

I mean… are you interested in her?

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Anonymous 8w

If you get the sense she’s looking at you, make a move w a respectful manner and be a man. If you get rejected than move on

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Anonymous 9w

Def ask age first before trying anything 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

No like I will be walking somewhere and we will make eye contact for a second or two and I’ll look down or around for a few sec and she will still be staring at me when I look back 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

I mean we’re both legal age but she def seems quite older than me not that that’s my problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Yeah I’m just more so unsure as to how bc in a packed gym setting it can be very awkward esp w mixed signals

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