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I love gym girls so much but I can’t ever approach one in the gym
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Anonymous 5w

just go for it. As a girl we are also looking and waiting for the guy to come to us. Worse case scenario is she has a boyfriend.

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Anonymous 5w

it’s honestly such an amazing place to meet someone bc it’s somewhere that ppl go to better themselves

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Anonymous 5w

i get told all the time i look intimidating in the gym but it’s very flattering when someone does approach me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

^^ this and also we (at least me) usually feel like we look such a mess during/after a lift so this would make my day personally. Do it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

This topic feels so bipolar. It’s either a definite yes, approach always it’s super welcome or it’s the absolute worst thing ever and I’m a creep for even thinking about talking to someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

It’s cuz some girls be doing too much. As a gym girl I don’t mind getting approached as long as you’re being respectful. Of course there’s been times some men have been creepy but others have been pretty chill and I ended up having some good friends from the gym. I want a gym man bc we share similar interests

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

My biggest fear is coming across as creepy or something like that making anyone uncomfortable. Which is why I’ve steered away from approaching anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

As long as you don’t say anything actually creepy or demeaning like commenting on her body (in a sexual way), her reaction is on her. She has her own issues and u don’t want to entertain that regardless. If u need advice or anything dm me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Often men have approached me by is asking where I’m from ( as I look kinda ambiguous), or given compliments on features, or mentioned about my strength for my size, or js asked if I needed help w getting down some equipment since I’m short lol. And gradually the conversation flowed from there. Those generally aren’t creepy so u could try tht w a girl you like in the gym.

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