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I love my girlfriend and she is very skinny. I started dating her because how we used to bike and workout together. I still go to the gym but she does not. Is wrong for me to want to get her back the gym. I still love who she is. It might help her mental
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Anonymous 2w

Tell her that you miss doing those activities with her and that she should get back into it with you.

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Anonymous 2w

No it’s not wrong to want your partner to live the active lifestyle that you guys once bonded over. As long as you’re not tryna force or shame her - try to help by doing gym dates or something. She might have just lost the passion for it for a while and just needs a push to rekindle it again

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Anonymous 2w

No it’s entirely reasonable to want your partner to live a similar lifestyle as you, especially if that lifestyle is a healthy lifestyle that is going to be good for both of you long term.

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Anonymous 2w

How skinny are we talking? And did she get more skinny after stopping the gym bc been there. If there’s an energy level thing, maybe take that angle. That’s what helped me get out of it

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