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Ladies I’m a full-time online student so my hours are pretty flexible — whats the best time to go when there aren’t a bunch of college/middle-aged men there?? I hate feeling like people are looking at me, & the whole “just ignore it bro,” I cannot do 😭
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Anonymous 1w

start ignoring it. for me it helped to wear less revealing clothing and to wear headphones. most of the time no one is looking at you and with time you will realize that

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Anonymous 1w

lowk you’re just gonna have to experiment bro unfortunately im sorry - im in college and i go at around 11 and its pretty empty if that helps

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Anonymous 1w

Early in the morning like 4-6am

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Anonymous 1w

Early am. Or during meals. Especially lunch

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Anonymous 1w

middle of the day. 11-2pm

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Am or pm

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I work out exclusively in big t-shirts and sweatpants— I don’t think I’ve ever worn revealing clothes except for one sweltering day when I wore a sleeveless top in the summer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

am!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

nice! it didn't really change how often i was looked at (very little) but it made me feel like i had no reason to be watched. and ultimately your goal is to feel like you aren't being watched

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

it will take time

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