
hey! i was in your shoes just a few months ago. you could go with friends if it helps you with exposure first starting, but try not to depends on them in the long term as it won’t be viable with building discipline/consistency, as you need to eventually get used to feeling comfortable enough to go alone. the biggest tip is: planning w/ intention. this means going into the gym knowing what you’re going to do or try, which can help you ease into the environment with more certainty
i would actually recommend looking into first “programming a split” to understand what you need to know as a beginner getting into weightlifting. my favorite for beginners are PPL or UL. since it’s your first time doing these exercises, tutorial videos will also help a lot while trying them, and some influencers who are great for this and getting into fitness in general are: TNF, Jeff Nippard, and Ryan Jewers (you could also just search on TikTok tutorials on exercises).