
Literally struggling with this right now. I’m 179 at 5’8 and I think I’m huge, but for some reason even at my smallest I felt the same way. I’ve always preferred being smaller/skinnier than being more muscular because that’s what I’ve seen from society. I don’t even know how to lift weights properly at the gym so I stick to cardio. This cycle is heartbreaking.
I found a video from 2018 when I was 12ish and I realized at that time I thought I was literally so ugly/fat/etc. and looking at it I can see I was literally just a regular looking child. Like I can remember exactly what I thot abt myself and how worried I was abt my weight at the time and now I’m looking at it and seeing I looked fine? I was just a regular looking kid?? And now that my cousins are tht age I wonder who would ever say smth to them to make them feel that way, it’s so unnecessary
and in terms of longevity too, studies have shown that building muscle can strengthen bones and increase bone density to help prevent osteoporosis and fractures, reduced risk of chronic disease like diabetes or heart disease, hormone regulation (like improving PCOS), and pain reduction/management for conditions like arthritis and back pain.
I was a gymnast at the time and everyone always told me I couldn’t gain weight bc it would show in the leotard or that my shoulders were getting too broad or that ab exercises make a girl look boxy blah blah blah and now all I can think is why in the world were you putting that into an actual LITTLE GIRL’s head??