
Getting a real, genuine passion for the subculture is the best way. Idk what you are going for, but just use goth as an example because you posted here. When you get really familiar with the music it’s rewarding to hear someone mention a band or a song and be like “oh I know that!”. There is gothic literature and film too so getting into that also helps. If you get a passion for what you want to be, you’ll never feel like you are larping again