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Did I handle this right?
14 upvotes, 14 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Good Vibes Only. "Did I handle this right?"
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Anonymous 5w

yeah you did

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Anonymous 5w

you cared too much so non

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Anonymous 5w

no*

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Anonymous 5w

She is scum. It’s easy to see.

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Anonymous 4w

Tbh you can’t stop explaining yourself. The other person couldn’t even care less about you, based on how they responded to you. The less you explain, in this situation, the better. You tried explaining yourself at first but they responded aggressively, which would really will only makes you feel guilty or that it’s your fault to have a feeling- which shouldn’t be the case at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m still on delivered.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

and that means you did the right thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

What do you mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

listen you were aware of some issues that arose inside of you and stood up for yourself out of love and respect. and realized something needed to change and you were honest and clear and forthcoming about it while also being respectful. you did a good job and you need to remember that. they way they responded and ignored you showed that they weren’t that great

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

In the last 24 hours I went from one extreme to the other and i don’t know if I’ll survive the first week without breaking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

well one of those extremes shows a strong sense of what you’re prepared to handle. it doesn’t seem like you’re in a place where you can develop a loving healthy relationship with someone. love should come from abundance not a lack of it. your anxiety when they’re not texting shows you’re dependent on them for some sense of self value and emotional stability. that’s not love. that’s dependency and i think you realized that. work on you. i know it’s hard trust me i get it but it’s worth it.

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Anonymous 5w

yeah what i said was true in all regards but it’s okay

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Anonymous 5w

there’s a such thing as being too dependent on a person…

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

It’s not that you’re asking for too much, you’re just asking the wrong person.

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