Good Vibes Only on Sidechat | After eight months, my house is finally under contract to be sold, and it is the first step of escaping my toxic relationship and I am so excited to see what is to come!!! I’m ready for next steps and finding myself after 6 years with a narcissist:)

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Good Vibes Only 4w

After eight months, my house is finally under contract to be sold, and it is the first step of escaping my toxic relationship and I am so excited to see what is to come!!! I’m ready for next steps and finding myself after 6 years with a narcissist:)

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Anonymous 4w

okay but to freak with these others talking like they know😭 would you talk about your experiences, please?!

Anonymous 4w

Gang prolly wasn’t even a narcissist, just over using a buzz word at this point

Anonymous 4w

I’d like to say for everyone who says “I was dumb” or “why so long” because it started slow. He was once the person I had always dreamed of. But slowly my friend circle shrunk, we moved, bought a house together out of state, where it was just me and him… then we had a child and finances aren’t easy. It’s a lot easier to judge from the outside looking in. But when your in it you don’t see it until it’s way too late. Judging someone in “good vibes only” yall are NOT good vibes. Keyboard assholes:)

Anonymous 4w

Are you bell from beauty and the beast?

Anonymous 4w

Took u 6 years to realize that, crazy

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Anonymous

#1 4w

stfu

Anonymous

#2 4w

I’d be mad too if I wasted 6 years of my life just to come to yikyak and post that dumb shit

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Anonymous

#4 4w

If ur gonna come to yikyak and pan handle for sympathy that’s nuts, especially took gang 6 yrs to smarten up idk what else to say

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Anonymous

#1 4w

What else they can say at that

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Anonymous

#1 4w

why are you so concerned with how someone else spent the last 6 years of their life? focus on the next 6 of yours and perhaps HAVING some sympathy for another human 😭 acting all righteous like you’ve lived a perfect life or something…

Anonymous

#4 4w

Thank you. I shared a little down below. Toxic relationships don’t start that way. It starts slow and escalates. And by the time I realized I was alone, and financially unable to get out of the situation with a small child. Many people go a lot longer than I do. So the judgement recieved from a “good vibes” group is actually wild.

Anonymous

OP 4w

this place obv isn’t the place to get into details about my questions and FUCK chat it’ll gaslight me more my own spirals😭 just know that i am SOOOO incredibly proud of you! it took 1939372810937181x more strength to conquer those obstacles than hide behind the screen and mock someone’s achievements ❤️🥹🫶🏼

Anonymous

OP 4w

So instead of just not posting online like a normal person ur first thought was to pan handle on the yak? Beyond me

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Anonymous

#1 4w

there seems be quite a few things beyond your understanding:’(. i’m sorry to hear your brain is under developed and you can’t seem to grasp the idea of you’re not welcome here….. ☺️

Anonymous

#4 4w

Gangs acting like they own yikyak 💀 what an odd complex

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Anonymous

#1 4w

this chat is literally called “good vibes only” 🫨

Anonymous

#4 4w

Alright and? Her pan handling her 6 year fuck up is bring the vibe down

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Anonymous

#1 4w

no, sir. that would be you😅 “i’m so excited to see what is to come!!!” nothing about her post said “give me sympathy”. you’re just offended she used the word “narcissist” to explain the situation with her EX and i’m getting the idea it’s because DUH🤣. you are one?…. you ca say what you want, and i’ll see it! but i’m certainly not wasting another moment typing to your incompetence.

Anonymous

#4 4w

U gotta crazy complex 💀 but nah its def giving spare change

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Anonymous

#3 4w

Feels like it 😂

Anonymous

#1 4w

Isn’t that what you’re doing? 😭 this person can post wtv they want lol. If you don’t like it, just scroll. No need to leave mean comments.

Anonymous

OP 4w

Yeah but just because they strongly disagree and you both cant find middle ground and you guys can have nasty arguments over it. Doesn’t mean they are narcissist. Overused word that lost its actual meaning

Anonymous

#6 3w

I think the constant belittling and telling me I’m not good at anything. Or the gaslighting or telling me I’m wrong even though I know I’m right with facts and receipts to back it up. and then emotionally abusing me only to roll over and fall asleep while I’m crying is narcissistic it’s not an overused word when you use it correctly :)