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Girls need some advice. My bf of about 1.5 years is being very distant. He goes through these phases of just not talking, and with no warning. So I always immediately think something is wrong but he says there’s not. I get needing alone time but say that
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Anonymous 17h

he might be going through something, check up on him mentally. or, the spark is dying on his end so try and step up to do things he would enjoy or do something special for him. he might be losing interest too, i’m not gonna automatically get rid of that possibility. he might not feel the distance because he’s trying to pull away a little because he needs time for himself. be patient and give it a couple weeks. if he’s still not being himself, sit down and have a serious conversation about where-

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Anonymous 23h

Also I have asked him before to just say something instead of basically ghosting me randomly. Any advice, do I just deal with this cause I get not wanting to talk if something is wrong yknow

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Anonymous 18h

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Anonymous 18h

i think it’s bot fair to you and it’d be best to break up with him if he keeps doing that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

y’all stand. i notice a lot of men tend to hibernate themselves and pull away, not talk about their feelings or look for any closeness when they’re going through something mentally even if they’re showing up in every other area of life. however, my ex bsf’s military bf did this and randomly broke up w her and now isn’t being close w anyone bc of his mental health. just be patient where you can be.

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