
This is specifically referencing the phrase “boys will be boys”, a phrase that explicitly excuses wrongdoings done by boys. Saying “so will girls” and “shouldn’t everyone be held accountable equally” is like responding to someone saying “black lives matter” with “all lives matter. Yes, all life is valuable and important, but the specific phrase “black lives matter” is meant to call out the racially charged violence and systemic racism black people face. So, to counter with “all lives matter” is-
-is to directly counter that phrase’s purpose of calling out that racism. Yes, everyone should be held accountable equally. However men’s wrongdoings tend to meet consequences far less than they should, like how many sh and sa cases where a man victimizes a woman have been blamed on the woman and many times the man faces far lighter sentencing than he deserves, if he’s even convicted. Even past that, this post is criticizing the phrase “boys will be boys” specifically, there is no need to-
Why do insecure misogynistic POS men immediately get defensive and deflect onto women? We can have that conversation if that’s the conversation, but right now the conversation is about men and that specific phrase. Seriously, if you were a good guy you wouldn’t take offense because this wouldn’t be offensive in the first place. What is offensive about saying men need to be held accountable? Have you done things you need to be held accountable for?
Brother I’m taking things in context. What we’ve seen recently is sole attacks on men, even men who are good because automatically we assume all men are bad. I agree all men need to be held accountable, but also we’ve seen women completely excusing other women for their actions. Thats not fair, Clancy for example, or I’ve seen many friends who have been falsely accused of rape and their lives ruined because a parent found out or word of mouth of a construal sexual intercourse.
But that wasn’t the topic of conversation. If you want to talk about that, make a separate thread. Trying to immediately make it a whataboutism just instantly makes you look guilty, whether you are or not. Also, all this is coming from a guy. Obviously women need to be held accountable, but men are the ones who disproportionately do things they need to be held accountable for. You seem like the type of person to defend the Cornell Seven
Yea that’s what’s wrong with yall these days. Always playing the victims. Tape sucks IN GENERAL. No matter what. One you don’t get to generalize all men to that. Two you don’t get to excuse false accusations as normal. In that case if you’re so scared of being raped don’t have sex. You’re disgusting, false accusations against men ruin lives. We can’t get jobs, you ruin a family name, the persons rep, etc and for what. Those should be equal crimes and punishments.
And as for Cornell seven, I think what they did is disgusting. They’re all disgusting men. The girl is disgusting as well, she happily went there consented to all of it, as she clearly said, and then when her reputation got ruined she tried to switch her word to ruin the men’s lives. Both parties suck, it’s a shitty situation, and I think even though it was disgusting it wasn’t rape both parties were equally intoxicated. I’m not gonna argue here yall are delusional women who want to play victim
Like I said, I’m literally a man, and I can attest to how easy it is to not get rape accusations. I believe most men just don’t think what they’re doing qualifies as rape when it does. If you think there’s even a chance you’re doing something with dubious consent, then don’t do it. It truly is that simple.
You’re a disgusting human for forming a lynch mob without reading into her statements at actually insane. Immoral and gross is not illegal. She texted it was consensual. She said she want interested in a three some. The first two boys were more intoxicated than he so they had to stop. READ THE FUCKING CASE, READ ANY LAWYERS OPINION ON IT ONLINE. THERE IS NO CASE. SHE ONYO DECIDED TO ACCUSE THEM AFTER THEY TOLD HER SHE COULDNT GO TO THE HALLOWEEN PARTY. SHE TEXTED IT WASNT ILLEGAL.
Those boys are disgusting but just because of the grossness of the act, but it’s not illegal. She only went after them when everyone found out she was a whore and they cut her off. You all are disgusting for not even giving anything a second of research or thought. The problem with women is 90% of you cannot mix emotion and logic at the same time, u read a headline and that’s it. You don’t go read the literal “victim’s” statements. Instead u form mobs and try to ruin lives.
Damn bro you deadass arguing everything I’ve been trying to. That border shit is the realist thing ever. What I’ve learned is they don’t really care about any of these issues. They only use it as leverage whenever it benefits them. People talk about how much they are against raping and sa but when we remove thousands of them from the country it’s an issue and no issue when we let in thousands of them.
Racist? What tf did I say that’s racist. Buddy my own parents are immigrants you can’t just anyone and everyone racist. And misogyny? In that case isn’t is misandry against the guts of you always assume guys are 100% wrong, like brother evidence is right there. I’m brown btw so I don’t even want to hear that shit. And I never called all women whores I called the women who planned this entire thing and excitedly ran to go get gang banged a whore. Wow you’re disgusting for that comment
BLM, mass migration, Cornell 7, the Islamist takeover of Syria and Lebanon. All headed and supported by women who think with emotion but can’t see the larger picture. "It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adherents of the Party, the swallowers of slogans, the amateur spies and nosers-out of unorthodoxy." - George Orwell
I gotta kinda agree with you lowkey she did initially consent to some acts that would have been extremely questionable for any normal person to think about and participate in. She switched her story multiple times and after people found out about her getting freaky did she accuse the guys of rape. The guys were in the wrong but still the girl is responsible for putting herself in the situation but for some reason its all the guy’s fault.
Yes and im trying to figure out what you mean. There is no organization that all fraternities are a part of. If you’re talking about Cornell Chi Phi or even Chi Phi as a national fraternity it makes more sense, but a universal organization with different fraternities from different colleges does not exist. I’m failing to see how for example a chapter other than chi phi at a small school that is not known for its Greek life and gets 10 members a year is apart of the same corrupt organization