Oh how I love being a woman 🫩

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You are normal girlie lmfao. I’ve met ppl w adhd. All of them have been chatty and kind and friendly. There is nothing you did that was wrong in any capacity. I’m sorry you feel this way, but I can guarantee you that you can find ppl who love you the way you are in college w out having to undergo hazing and payments for friends

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a lot of sorority slander here but as an adhd girl in a sorority i promise you are normal and girls get dropped all the time for reasons that aren’t personal. no one i know has ever dropped a girl cuz she had adhd that’s insane. if u have other houses left try them becuz you will find ur home even if its not what u first thought

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as a fellow girls girl I hate to say it but if u think being in a sorority or joining one is a good attempt at being normal it’s not I’m sorry but paying for friends is not normal I’m aware you could be joining a sorority for other reasons than making friends but I’m using that as the example because it’s the most sought out reason generally it’s much easier than you think to meet people organically especially if you’re in a college setting & of age (21+)

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I’ve ghosted multiple people including my high school sweetheart and husband for being this kind of weird.

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i’m convinced they do these dms bc they feed on degrading insults or something so i don’t give them the time of day

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have you considered that maybe it’s them who are not normal? Are we really going to accept that it’s a normal thing to be in a group built on secrets and exclusivity? If being normal is being “like everyone else” ;and being in this group is “excluded from everyone else”. Would the sorority not definitionally be not normal? Like, no matter how you slice it it’s kinda weird to be in Greek life on the premise alone, let alone all of other sketchy shit.

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