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I need advice I’ve been dating this guy for ~3 months, met each others parents, friends, everything. He’s really sweet and all but I feel like the spark isn’t there anymore. Like I’m just … bored. I feel horrible. will continue in comments
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Anonymous 6d

Def talk to him about it first and if he wants to make it work he will work for it. Try doing new things together maybe Mae like a bucket list or something. That’s if you want things to work tho. If you don’t and if you can’t see things going anywhere then cut it off.

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Anonymous 6d

I mean having a best friend is more important than the romance. There might not be a spark but that can always come back from doing new things together and dates. You might want to look into why you get bored in relationships and your love language. Communicating first before breaking up for sure.

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Anonymous 6d

I feel like there’s nothing for us to talk about anymore and like when I talk about my interests, he listens but he doesn’t really get it. Like he doesn’t ask any follow up questions. I just feel stagnant and kind of trapped. idk if I should just see it out, because he is really nice and he hasn’t necessarily done anything wrong? does it always get like this? is it worth trying to work out if I don’t want to be in the relationship anymore?

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Anonymous 6d

I mean what do you like about him? What do you see in the future? Are you compatible? What made the spark there before vs now? If you want him to read your mind and be a perfect person that’s not really going to happen, but if you feel something just wrong in your gut then prob trust it

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Anonymous 6d

if you’re only 3 months in and you’re already feeling bored, do you really wanna spend the rest of your life with this dude? if y’all had already been together for years or were married or something then yeah figure it out but girl it’s 3 months, i’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we live together and it feels like there’s never a dull moment when im with him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

to me it sounds like you already know what you want to do and I would just do it

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