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Idk why I can’t just be nice to a guy without them assuming I want them 🙁 even when I’m not flirting it’s just…. Basic kindness. Sir why would I want you 💀💀💀
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Anonymous 14w

It’s because men are no longer being socialized. We’ve polarized friendship in this day and age, so a man who’s never spoken to a woman or is never around them will mistake kindness for romance because they aren’t used to women being kind to them. Same way with some women. It’s very sad.

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