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they died?

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Anonymous #2 9w

I’m asking genuinely. How does knowing she could still be unemployed with a degree and dead parents in nine years be of comfort? When that’s the preface, how is one supposed to believe that this is just a rough transition phase and it’s gonna get better?

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Anonymous #3 9w

because i know comparing yourself to others your age is tough and can make you feel like a failure. my point is shit happens to people at any age so you’re never alone. there’s always a bright side or things to be thankful for. it doesn’t mean that life is over or things won’t get better just bc they’re not great right now. i know it makes me feel better to know im not alone, or that im actually doing better than someone else. i’m at most 4 years older lol

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Anonymous #3 9w

also i spent my 20s dying in the hospital so like basically anyone is doing better than me. your health is precious and as long as you have that, the world is your oyster. people think because their 20s aren’t perfect like other people that they’ve failed in life. but we’re still practically babies. life doesn’t begin until your 30s and 40s.

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Anonymous #3 9w

you can be unemployed and go through shitty things at any age so i’m confused at your confusion. most people only talk about how amazing their life is on social media and it can just amplify what’s wrong in your life. i just thought someone being real and relating to the struggle might feel better than pity. fuck me for trying to be nice i guess. i’m doing terribly but i know im going to have a great future full of happiness and success and if i can do that literally anyone can 😁

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