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i always want to break up w him but once he’s face to face with me i can’t. wtf is wrong w me
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Anonymous 3w

Pls don’t beat yourself up over it. I was the same way so I tried breaking up with him over the phone and he told me no and cried each time which made me feel awful so we continued dating like nothing happened. I finally just broke up with him over text. I felt like that was my only option because I wouldn’t be able to see his face or hear his voice (or put myself in a position to be guilt tripped into staying 🙃) and if I was with him I knew I’d put his feelings before mine

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Anonymous 3w

coward :\

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

that’s where i’m at rn, and i genuinely don’t think he even sees my issues as a problem. so what just text him then block?😭 it feels so mean

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I didn’t block him I honestly just dropped the bomb on him lol then I kinda slowly stopped responding at first because I wanted to let him just say whatever he felt like he needed to say. I did tell him not to call me and that whatever he had to say he could say over text because if he called I knew what would happen and atp it had been a year of me trying to break up with him only for him to say no and cry so me just being completely over it did help a little. If you want to dm me you can btw!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

The last year of our relationship was the MOST miserable year of my life and I will never get it back. I know I don’t know you but I would not wish that feeling of being stuck on anyone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

thank you, ugh that sounds so hard. i wish it wasn’t so difficult. i’m proud of you for getting out tho!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Thank you hunny 🫂 if I can do it I know you can, you’re a lot stronger than you think 🩷 it is so hard but it is SO worth it, I promise. I felt the weight of the world lift off of my shoulders. LITERALLY. It was so crazy because up until that moment I had never felt that before in my LIFE. It was the most rewarding thing because I physically felt myself get through it and everything just fell into place mentally after that 🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

it’s called being emotionally abused thanks!

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